Numerology and Parenting
Parenthood is an art form. It take skill, talent, learning and patience. It is also a full-time job. Sadly, a survey was conducted internationally and it showed that the U.S. ranked one of the lowest regarding the treatment of children and practices in child-rearing.. We all know that being able to have a child does not make you a good parent. Children aren’t born with instruction manuals! I’ve often thought that parenting should be a requirement in high school or college. Parents need training and it would make things much easier for many children. Parents that don’t have the skills they need to be a good parent sometimes resort to abuse. Children are abused physically, emotionally and psychologically no matter what their social-economic status may be.
If you look at the animal world, offspring spend very little time with their parent before they are sent off on their own. In the human world, we spend 18 to 21 years raising our offspring in the hopes of them becoming a successful adult. In addition to this, it is costly. Raising a child involves many expenses including a college education to save for. In many of my personal consultations, the questions ultimately get around to loved ones especially children. I'm often asked, "Why is it we can't get along?" After devoting a number of years to this area of study, I've found that Numerology offers quick, simple, and logical explanations to the problem of disharmony in a parent/child relationship.
In Numerology, parenting can be improved if you understand the personality of your child, depending on your birth number. An example of this is when a father, who was taught to be masculine and strong, teaches his son that he should not cry. However, if he has a number 2 son, there will be problems with this line of thinking. Number 2 children tend to be overly emotional and sensitive. They keep their feelings hurt easily and they tend to cry often. The number 9 father may not understand this innate nature of his son and will always be hard on him and demand that he “be a man.”
Another example that I have personally witnesses is the case of a mother who was born on the 20th of the month. She is a number 2 person (2+0=2). Her mother was born on the 29th, another 2 person (2+9=11; 1 + 1=2). In addition to this, her father was born on the 2nd of the month, amazingly, another 2 person. The last family member was her brother, born on the 9th of the month. In an entire family of #2 people a brother was born who broke the pattern by having a 9 (which happens to be a number in direct opposition to the number 2). She agreed that this was true. Not only was he different from the rest of the family but he was also rebellious (a 9 attribute). Sadly, he died at age 20 (2+0=2) from an injury which is another characteristic of number 9 people.
Parenting Numerology Numbers
NUMBER 1 NUMEROLOGY PARENT
For those born on the 1st, 10th, 19th, or 28th of the month, your idea of a good parent is one who keeps his/her children safe physically. Be aware of the importance of protecting children emotionally. Allow your children to express themselves, and allow yourself to show emotionas well. If your children were born on dates adding up to a 1, 4, or 9, you will be likely to have a happy and harmonious relationship with your kids. Children born on 6 or 8 dates are more emotional and less likely to think through situations like yourself. This may cause some disagreements among you.
NUMBER 2 NUMEROLOGY PARENT
If you were born on the 2nd, 11th, 20th, and 29th are usually very nurturing due to the relationship they have had with their own mothers. Children born on dates adding up to 2, 7, or 6 are more likely to be in harmony with you. The reverse is true if your children were born on dates adding up to a 9. Number 9 children tend to be more rebellious. Unlike your gentle nature. Children born under the number 8 are the next number to cause possible conflict.
NUMBER 3 NUMEROLOGY PARENTS
Those born on the 3rd, 12th, 21st, and 30th of the month, you're considered a 3 parent. Any children born under 3, 6, or 9 may seem to tug on your heart. You are conflicted by your strong work ethic, but your strong tie to your family as well. If your child is born on a 4 or 5 date you will find yourself needing to devote more time and attention to this needy one. The 4 or 5 may also require more patience has they may tend to push your buttons a bit easier.
NUMBER 4 NUMEROLOGY PARENT
Number 4 people are those born on the 4th, 13th, 22nd, or 31st of the month, those children born on dates adding up to 4, 1, or 5 are the ones you are less likely to reprimand. Your moodiness at times causes your children to misunderstand you. When you are feeling happy and in a good mood, use that opportunity to tell your kids you love them and our proud of them. If you have a child or two born under a 6 or 8, the balance of peace and harmony may be harder to achieve. The 6 child and 4 parent are similar and can be quite stubbon. Don’t let your tendencies toward pessimism discourage your 6 and 8 children. They need encouragement and praise in these formative years.
NUMBER 5 NUMEROLOGY PARENT
Being born on the 5th, 14th, or 23rd makes you a number 5 person. You deal with children well and you are flexible with them. Your children that are born on the 5th, 14th, and 23rd may be very much like you in the way they walk, talk and act. As is more likely with birth numbers adding up to 6 or 9. However, the children born under a 3 or 8 may seem like they are from another time and place from you. You will need to work harder to create understanding among you. Keep in mind they are your own flesh and blood and it’s critical to treat them with the same amount of understanding, love and encouragement.
NUMBER 6 NUMEROLOGY PARENT
Those born on the 6th, 15th, or 24th of the month are #6 parents. Like the number 2 parent, you are a nurturing parent and loving your children is a piece of cake. You are flexible no matter what birth day children may have, especially those born on dates that add up to 6, 2, or 3. Children born under 4 or 1 may sometimes confuse you. A number 4 child is usually harder to understand. They have a hard time explaining why they do what they do. You shouldn't expect them to be as sociable and fun-loving as yourself, but do encourage 4 or 1 children to be the best they can be and allow them to take risks.
NUMBER 7 NUMEROLOGY PARENT
If your date of birth is the 7th, 16th, or 25th than you are a number 7 parent. Due to the fact that you value peace and serenity, parenting may be a challenge for you at times. For you, it seems that you will find better harmony as your children get older and more mature. If you have a 7, 2, or 6 child, they may require a great deal of your attention. Which may take time away from your other offspring. Those born under 8 or 9 may cause you greater worry. Because you tend to be keep you feelings inside be sure to let your children how important they are to you. Be honest with them in your love.
NUMBER 8 NUMEROLOGY PARENT
If your birthday is on the 8th, 17th, or 26th, you would be a number 8 parent. The 8 parent has a tendency toward being cold and hesitant.. If you find that to be you, you need to work hard at not showing this to your kids. You need to bring out the loving side of your nature. Children born on dates adding up to 8, 3, or 6 may be easier for you to pay attention to you, because they are more like you in many way. The opposite may occur with the 4, 5, and 1 children. You may find yourself more frustrated and less understanding with them. Give to your children without favoritism and you will never regret it. They will love you for it.
NUMBER 9 NUMEROLOGY PARENT
Were you born on the 9th, 18th, or 27th of the month? Then you are a number 9 parent. You are brave and adventurous and you desire that in your children. You find yourself encouraging them in the way you do. If any of your children share a 9 birth date, or are a number 1 or 3, you may not have reason to worry. However, you may just have a child that acts and thinks just the opposite as you do. Love your child for who they are and do your best to understand their nature. . If your child was born on a 2 or 7 date, don't expect a strong and brave nature from them, especially if they're boys. Let them develop in their own time and don’t scold them for making choices that are contrary to your nature. Give them room to grow.