Why is it you're strongly attracted to a person—or they to you? What makes for compatibility on the one hand, and turns you off on the other? This question of attraction, compatibility, and harmony is about as old as the attraction between Adam and Eve. As an individual, you may respond to love, sex, passion, feelings, and emotions totally differently from your mate or others close to you. But that's the beauty of God's creation. Life would be pretty boring if we all responded in the same way, at the same time, and on the same level.
Thanks to Numerology, however, much of the mystery that surrounds the harmony and disharmony in personal, business, and intimate relations can be easily answered. Numerology covers the wide variety of differences between you and others. Just taking the time to know yourself and others numerically may well explain why you may be attracted to those born under certain months and dates and not to others.
Choosing Compatible Partners
NUMBER 1 PERSON
Born on the 1st, 10th, 19th, or 28th of the month, you are "mentally" attracted to people in matters of love, romance, and business. As a 1 person, your way of expressing love is more intellectual than emotional. Because of your Numerical nature, you respond more on the plane of will and logic. You'll do better in relationships where you can take the lead, or at least have a say. As a rule, you don't like playing second fiddle to anyone or anything and should be treated accordingly. You tend to be more harmonious with those born in the months of April, August, and February, and those born on dates adding up to 2, 4, 7, and 9. Persons born in the months of January, May, and October are likely to cause you more than your share of problems and opposition. The same is true with those born on dates adding up to 6 and 8.
NUMBER 2 PERSON
If you were born on the 2nd, 11th, 20th, or 29th of the month, you express your feelings and love more from the emotional side of your nature. Love, friends, companions, and partnerships are very important to you. Your inner being yearns to love, to feel with great sensitivity and emotion. You must have companionship in order to be happy. However, you should avoid an early marriage, especially if you were born on the 29th of the month. Part of your attraction for others is that you're a natural listener to anyone with problems or anyone who needs a helping hand. This is the reason you have to be more discriminating in your selection of friends, mates, and lovers. When you pay careful attention, you tend to harmonize best with those born in the months of March, May, July, August, and October, and those whose birth dates add up to 1, 4, 6, or 7. Just the reverse is true for persons born in January, April, and November, as well as those with a birth date that adds up to a 9 or 8.
NUMBER 3 PERSON
Being born on the 3rd, 12th, 21st, or 30th of the month suggests that you express love from the emotional and active side of your nature. Love and romantic relations may at times be elusive for you. You'd like to rise to be somebody in life, to make a name for yourself. In fact, a proud and ambitious nature would also be a requirement in your relationships. You expect others close to you to be conscientious in everything they do. But from their point of view, you're likely to seem dictatorial. When it comes to matters of love you prefer your mate to have a name, status, or a high position in life. If not, you prefer that he or she at least have a goal or objective in life. Another aspect that must be considered is that you are more career than domestically oriented. You attract and harmonize with those born in the months of March, December, April, November, and May, and with those born on dates adding up to 3, 6, and 9. You'll have to be careful around persons born in February, June, August, and September to avoid unnecessary stress. The same goes for those born on dates adding up to 4 and 5.
NUMBER 4 PERSON
If you were born on the 4th, 13th, 22nd, or 31st, you basically express your love and emotional feelings from the physical and intellectual side of things. You're likely to experience ups and downs, or involvements in odd and unusual affairs. Your relationships—intimate or otherwise—usually come from outside your own ethnic, social, or religious background. There'll be times when those you feel close to will let you down; as a result, love and romance may come out of left field. You're positive, but at the same time easily wounded in your feelings, and loved ones have to keep this in mind. Those born in February, August, and June, as well as those whose birth dates add up to 1, 2, 5, or 7 are closely related to you. However, those born in January, May, and October are likely to be the cause of emotional concerns. This is also true of those with birth dates adding to 6 or 8.
NUMBER 5 PERSON
Being born on the 5th, 14th, or 23rd means you ex-express your love and desires in more physical or sensual Ways. Sex is your middle name with this birth number. You may be known for your attractiveness or good looks, which constantly draw others to you. While you may not feel that you're attractive, from the viewpoint of others, you give off a strong animal magnetism. You love your freedom and independence, as well as travel and variety. The one who figures that out will probably land you first. For best results, guard against an early marriage, as it may take you awhile to settle down. Romantically or otherwise, you attract those born in February, May, June, September, and October, or those having a birth date that adds up to a 1, 4, 6, 7, or 9. Care and caution may have to be used when it comes to someone born in January, March, and December.
NUMBER 6 PERSON
If you were born on the 6th, 15th, or 24th, you can express deep and loving feelings. Love, family, friends, and being appreciated goes a long way in your book. By temperament, you basically have more mother love for close ones, than physical. As a rule, like your number 5 counterpart, your birth number has dominion over physical beauty and/or a pleasing personality. This may explain why the opposite sex is constantly attracted to you. If possible, you should avoid marriage until a certain level of maturity is reached. You're likely to find personal and business attraction with those bora in the months of March, May, July, October, and December, also those with a birth date adding up to 2, 3, 6, or 9. Prudence and reservation should be the rule with those born in January, February and August. The same applies for those born on dates totaling 4 and 8.
NUMBER 7 PERSON
Born on the 7th, 16th, or 25th, you tend to express your love and feelings from a spiritual base. You love family life and appreciate affectionate gestures, yet you may have difficulty expressing the same in return—you can easily be misunderstood. Because of your spiritual and intuitive chemistry, you may hold emotions and feelings inside rather than sharing these thoughts with your loved ones. Moreover, if you continue to keep your emotions bottled up, you may experience rough times later on in marriage and partnerships. After all, you really prefer to be your own best company. You have a quiet, low-key way of going about attracting and harmonizing with others. Once you find the right person, you rarely go off course. Look for more promising relationships with those born in February, May, July, and August; or those with a 1, 2, 4, 5, or 6 birth date. Take care with those born in January, April, and November, and those born on Tuesdays, Saturdays, and under the numbers 8, 9, 17, 18, 26 and 27.
NUMBER 8 PERSON
If you were born on the 8th, 17th, or 26th, you express your love from a more mental and logical level. And because of your deep and intense nature, others on first approach may feel that you're cold. This can lead to misunderstandings in the early phases of a relationship. However, those who may feel you are uncaring and lack affection are in for a surprise as you're really very warm, kind-hearted, and generous. Because of your more serious and mature way of thinking and behaving, you're likely to get involved with those much older than yourself. Ironically, when it comes to love with passion, intensity, and warmth—you win the prize. You're likely to attract those born in January, March, May, and October, also those with 3, 6, or 8 birth dates. On the other hand, exercise more discretion in the beginning with persons born in February, August, June, and September, as well as those born on dates that add up to a 4, 1, or 5.
NUMBER 9 PERSON
Being born on the 9th, 18th, or 27th of the month strongly suggests that you want an active and somewhat aggressive type of relationship. You pride yourself on being energetic, courageous, and dynamic, and may feel these traits should be a part of your mate's characteristics as well. Whatever you do or whoever you get involved with, you like to do it with gusto. Yet, ironically, you can be easily manipulated once your heartstrings have been plucked. Since you're somewhat hasty in temper and blunt with words, you need to control these tendencies to keep relationships in balance. You'll find your best relationships with those born in the months of March through May, followed by October through December, or with those whose birth dates add up to 9, 3,6, and 1. Be sure to pay special attention in all your personal and business dealings with those born in the months of January and July, especially if their birth date adds up to 2, 7, or 8.
